I’m considering divorce. What practical steps should I take?

Here’s some general guidance on what steps you may think about if you’re considering divorce. We offer a few suggestions and practical steps you can take:

1. Seek Emotional Support:

Divorce can be emotionally challenging, so it’s important to have a support system in place. Reach out to trusted friends, family members or consider seeking professional counselling to help you navigate the emotional aspects of the process.

2. Consult with a Specialist Divorce Solicitor:

It’s advisable to consult with a family law solicitor who specialises in divorce cases. They can provide you with legal advice tailored to your specific situation, explain the divorce process and help you understand your rights and options.

3. Gather Financial Information:

Start gathering important financial documents, such as bank statements, tax returns, property deeds and details of any joint assets or debts. This information will be crucial when it comes to dividing assets and determining financial settlements.

4. Consider Mediation or Alternative Dispute Resolution:

Mediation or alternative dispute resolution methods can help you and your spouse reach agreements on various issues, such as child custody, financial matters and property division, outside of court. This can be a more amicable and cost-effective approach compared to litigation.

5. Prioritise Children’s Well-being:

If you have children, their well-being should be the top priority. Consider how you and your spouse can work together to create a parenting plan that focuses on their best interests. This may involve discussions about custody, visitation schedules and child support.

6. Protect Your Interests:

Take steps to protect your own interests during the divorce process. This may include safeguarding important documents, opening a separate bank account and seeking legal advice on how to navigate financial and property matters.

Remember, every divorce case is unique, and it’s important to consult with a qualified family law solicitor who can provide personalised advice based on your specific circumstances. They can guide you through the legal process, help protect your rights and work towards achieving a fair resolution.

At Alexander JLO we have decades of experience of dealing with all aspects of family law and will be happy to discuss your case in a free no obligation consultation. Why not call us on +44 (0)20 7537 7000, email us at info@london-law.co.uk or get in touch via the contact us button and see what we can do for you?

This blog was prepared by Alexander JLO’s senior partner, Peter Johnson on 3rd October 2023 and is correct at the time of publication. With decades of experience in almost all areas of law Peter is happy to assist with any legal issue that you have. He is widely regarded as one of London’s leading divorce lawyers. His profile on the independent Review Solicitor website can be found Here